A lady has explained why she does not fall in love anymore.
According to her, she did that when she was younger, when her feelings were in control.
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She stated that she now falls in love with discernment, decision, action and intention because loving someone is something she actively chooses.
“I don’t ‘fall’ in love anymore. I did that when I was younger. I’d let my feelings control me but now I control my feelings. At my age, I walk into love. I walk into love with discernment, decision, with action and with intention. To love someone is something I actively choose,” she tweeted.
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I don't 'fall' in love anymore. I did that when I was younger. I’d let my feelings control me but now I control my feelings. At my age, I walk into love. I walk into love with discernment, decision, with action and with intention. To love someone is something I actively choose.
— TONI TONE (@t0nit0ne) July 8, 2023
See reactions below:
@AustenWim: “Me too i was most of the time dissapointed and felt left allone. Rather difficult to White my feelings down. Then suddenly i was 58 … 6 years ago started to appreciate myself. Know im living on my own and so happy.”
@brownskin_sev: “Rise in love. It still exists, but people need time to grow in to their own. How can you truly fall in love with someone, if they haven’t reached their greatest self yet? Greatness. The greatest love is patient, and kind.”
@Faith_O_: “I always say it that love is beyond the butterfly feeling, love is a choice. A choice to intentionally commit to a person you like and share common values and beliefs with. This decision keeps you steady and grounded when the storms of life come.”
@SegojasaKubung: “I love your stance on grown up love affairs, this helps me to understand the difference between the feelings and the take of falling in love/loving someone at my age!”
@alrightsabrinaa: “I never got to “fall” in love when I was younger. I feel like I missed out on this universal experience.”
@Okeudosko1468: “A lot of women exhausted their love during dating. Now they are using open-eye in marriage.”
@TheOrdinaryZB: “A decision. People don’t understand that „to love“ is an action. To fall into love, a helpless uncontrollable accident. To love means to decide. To decide takes a certain time. But to decide means, dedication, intention and discipline. We don’t have to love. We choose to love.”
@daviddd_star: “i used to beat myself up a lot for running back to the past. He was just afraid, unsure and lonely. I value myself and i don’t play about me. why? because people like me DO exist. Those are my people, my crew. When someone shows their true colors the first time, BELIEVE IT!”
