"I know girl-on-top is supposed to be ah-mazing," says one woman. "But, as much as I hate to admit it, I'm too insecure to really enjoy myself that way. I'm thinking, am I going at the right pace? Do I look funny when I lean down? Are those my knees popping? I like missionary because it makes me feel more secure and lets me concentrate on how everything feels."
For the few women who don't place missionary at the top of their sex position list, here are the angles they say bring them to the Big "O."
"Spooning," says one. "It creates this really safe, cozy feeling but can also easily turn into this passionate, romance-novel type of action if you're not feeling lazy. And it gives the guy a chance to incorporate his hands too."
"I really like doggy-style," says another. "I enjoy deep penetration, and this position sure does that. Plus, I don't have to worry about whether I'm making stupid-looking faces, because he can't see me!"
"I like reverse cowgirl," says one woman. "I like to take the reins, forgive my pun, and being on backward gives me a sense of freedom—plus I know he enjoys that view."
Can you relate to anything these women had to say? Do you have a favorite position, and why does it work for you?